Closing the Doctor Gap:

Why Your Son Needs Regular Checkups

As parents, we naturally prioritize our children's health, ensuring they grow strong and stay healthy. For young women, the transition from pediatrician to gynecologist is clear, often creating a lifelong habit of regular doctor visits. Unfortunately, there’s no equivalent transition for young men. Once boys outgrow their pediatrician, they often stop seeing doctors regularly. This gap in care leaves many young men disconnected from the healthcare system, sometimes for years—or even decades.

Did You Know?

  • 60% of grown men don’t see a doctor regularly.

  • Without regular checkups, small health problems can easily become big ones.

  • Men are more likely to visit a doctor only when they’re in pain or facing a serious issue.

The consequences of this "doctor gap" are profound. Testicular cancer is a leading health concern for young men, and early detection is critical. However, too many men, like Samuel Carroll, aren’t diagnosed until the disease has progressed.

How You Can Help as a Parent

It’s time to change the narrative and get young men back in the habit of seeing a doctor. Here’s what you can do:

Start Early
Encourage your son to build a relationship with a healthcare provider once he stops seeing a pediatrician. This handoff from pediatric care to general healthcare is critical in preventing a gap.

Make Doctor Visits Routine
Just like you schedule regular checkups for your daughter, ask your son when his last appointment was. Help him schedule one if he hasn’t been in a while.

3. Talk About the Importance of Self-Exams
Young men may not realize that self-examinations for testicular cancer are vital. A quick monthly check can make all the difference. If they aren’t sure how, share resources or show them how—it’s a short, life-saving habit.

What’s at Stake?

Young men often feel invincible, believing they don’t need to see a doctor until something is wrong. This couldn’t be further from the truth. Sam’s father, David Carroll, shares the reality:

“If every parent gave the same care to their sons as they do to their daughters in making sure they regularly see a doctor, we’d prevent so much suffering. Too many young men drop out of the healthcare system and don’t come back until something is seriously wrong.”

Don’t let your son avoid healthcare until it's too late. By fostering the habit of regular checkups now, you’re giving him the tools he needs for a healthier future.